Friday, May 30, 2008

glad it's me and not him...still no fun

Okay, when am I going to be done going to the doctor with health issues? It's so frustrating. I had to go to the ER on Wednesday for difficulty of breathing. Then I had a follow up with my doctor today. My doctor ordered an ultrasound of my heart and a breathing test to check out my lungs. I don't get it...I just want to be done with the health stuff. But...yes...I am thrilled it is me going through all the health issues and not my precious boy Blake...who by the way now scoots himself down in this crib.

Question::::::: How do you forgive someone when they don't know that they have hurt you? Can you forgive someone without talking to them about what situation has occured?

5 comments:

Megan said...

Yes, you CAN forgive someone with out talking to them. But only with God's help. It is harder when you are not able to talk to them, but you can forgive. It is a choice we all have to make. :}

I am so so sorry about your health. Going to doctors all the time does suck. I hear yah. But, they are making sure you are all better to be a stronger mommy.

Still praying for you!

Judith and Lance said...

Sharon -- I'm so sorry and am praying for you. I hope you have been able to breathe easier and also hope that the pressure has eased.

About the forgiveness, that is such a hard thing. I think that if you don't want to talk to the person about what happened you have make a daily decision to forgive. After a while the decision won't even feel like MAKING yourself and it will feel natural and you'll have forgiven. Does that make sense? I'm struggling with the same thing right now.

Judith and Lance said...

Sharon -- I'm so sorry and am praying for you. I hope you have been able to breathe easier and also hope that the pressure has eased.

About the forgiveness, that is such a hard thing. I think that if you don't want to talk to the person about what happened you have make a daily decision to forgive. After a while the decision won't even feel like MAKING yourself and it will feel natural and you'll have forgiven. Does that make sense? I'm struggling with the same thing right now.

Happyness said...

Hi Sharon!

I've been praying for you and Blake, so I hope things health-wise for you will get better.

With forgiveness, I think we so often want to "right the wrong" that someone did against us. We want them to know how they hurt us and why it made us upset. It takes a bigger act to just forgive, but that's definitely not as easy. I'll be praying that you have the strength to choose the right way in your situation and that God will give you wisdom to know just how to approach this other person.

Sam :O)

Cara said...

Forgiveness can be a one-sided thing. Just knowing you have forgiven somebody gets that off your chest even if they do not know they are in the wrong. If the person is close enough to you talk to them. Depending on the person they will apologize and make the forgiveness thing a whole lot easier!