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Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Failure
There are somethings lately that have happened where I feel like a failure as a mother and wife. I can't take back my mistakes, I just hope it doesn't harm us too much in the future. It stinks when you give all that you have to something and someone, sometimes you still mess up and have ramifications for it. I know that God's mercy and grace can cover my mistakes and failures, but sometimes the mistakes have long term effects. It doesn't help when people point out to you that you have messed up when you yourself are your biggest critic. Hopefully some good will begin to happen and I can grow into a better wife and mom from these mishaps!
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We all have these feelings. I was just in tears half and hour ago for these exact reasons. Sharon, I hope you know that so many people look up to you. You encourage so many of us to turn to God for strength and help. Don't be to hard on yourself, you do a wonderful job.
Shar Shar...no mom is perfect. Weren't you there when Kent threw his 35 minute temper tantrum?
15 years from now Blake isn't going to be concerned about the parenting "mistakes' you made. What will stick with him the most is how much you loved him and how much you showed him about God's love.
YOu are too hard on yourself. You are a wonderful friend, and I am sure a wonderful mother and wife too. Nobody is perfect and we all mess up. Just try to concentrate on the areas you are strongest and know that God will strengthen you through the areas you are weaker. Luckily though, NOBODY is perfect...and no one should make you feel like a failure.
Sharon - after knowing you these past 4 years I have come to know and admire a wonderful wife who's example I would be proud to follow and your gentleness and thoughful mothering ways are certainly something I would classify as a success.
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