What does this mean:

Seek ye first.
Seek Jesus Himself.

So when I pray and ask for peace, wisdom, compassion, and holiness, is that part of seeking him?

Why does it seem when I pray it's for certain things?

Can't it just be seeking the face and heart of God? What would that look like or sound like? How would my prayers have to change?

In Oswald Chambers Book, but quote by F. Brook:
My goal is God Himself, not joy, nor peace; nor even blessing, but Himself, my God.